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What does 라떼는 말이야 (latte-neun mariya) mean? How a coffee pun mocks Korea's lecturing elders
라떼는 말이야 (latte-neun mariya) puns on 나 때는 말이야, “back in my day,” using the similar-sounding coffee name. A 2019 insurance ad made it famous, and it went on to snacks and a drama theme song.
At a glance
- Meaning
- A pun on 나 때는 말이야 (“back in my day”), mocking people who lecture others with their own past.
- Origin
- Described as a coinage of millennials (Banronbodo, Seoul Shinmun). Who said it first, and when, is unconfirmed. A Samsung Life ad made it famous in April 2019.
- Numbers
- In a 2019 Incruit survey, “when I was your age” (17%) tied for second among the phrases workers hated most from a kkondae.
- In English
- The online joke is “Latte is horse”; the real English is “Back in my day.”
One afternoon, as a meeting dragged on, the department head picked up a coffee and began: “When I joined this company…” A junior across the table glanced toward the break room and murmured, “One more latte, please.” No coffee was being ordered.
Two years of 라떼는 말이야: the short version
April 1, 2019
An insurance ad
Samsung Life posted its ad “책임지는 인생금융_라떼는 말이야” on YouTube. Actor Kim Byung-chul of the drama SKY Castle says the line while holding a coffee cup with a horse on it (말 also means horse). The company said it passed 500,000 views in three days.
July 2019
The press takes it up
The Seoul Shinmun introduced it as a coinage people in their 20s and 30s use to mock their elders' “back in my day.”
September 2019
BBC picks “kkondae”
BBC Two made 꼰대 (kkondae) its Word of the Day, defining it as an older person who believes they're always right and everyone else is wrong.
December 2019
Snacks and emoticons
The ad's views had reached 7.55 million, convenience store CU sold a “라떼는 말이야” snack, and KakaoTalk had kkondae emoticons (Banronbodo).
May 2020
A drama and a song
MBC's drama Kkondae Intern premiered on May 20. The next day came its soundtrack song 꼰대라떼 (“Kkondae Latte”), sung by Young Tak.
What does 라떼는 말이야 (latte-neun mariya) mean?
라떼는 말이야
A pun on 나 때는 말이야 (“back in my day”), swapping in “latte” to mock people who use their own past to lecture younger people.
In Korean: '나 때는 말이야'를 비슷한 발음의 '라떼'로 비꼰 말. 자기 옛 경험을 앞세워 젊은 사람을 가르치려 드는 태도를 풍자한다.
- 부장님 또 라떼 시작하셨다. 오늘은 몇 잔째야The boss has started on the lattes again. How many cups is that today?A private chat window at work
- 라떼는 말이야, 삐삐 번호로 약속을 잡았다고라떼는 말이야, we made plans by pager.A senior joking about being a kkondae
- 나 지금 라떼 같았지? 미안, 그냥 잊어 줘That sounded like a latte, didn't it? Sorry, forget I said it.Someone catching themselves mid-sentence
- 입사 2년 차가 신입한테 라떼를 시전하고 있더라A second-year employee was serving lattes to a new hire.Proof it has nothing to do with age
- How dare you18%
- When I was your age17%
- I'm saying this for your own good17%
- Young people these days16%
- Back in my heyday14%
Am I brewing a latte right now?
Those laughing at lattes shouldn't relax. When PMI asked 3,000 people in 2023, millennials were the most likely to call themselves kkondae, at 31.6%, against 26.6% of baby boomers and 18.6% of Gen Z (Financial News). Yes, the same millennials said to have coined the joke.
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라떼는 말이야 (latte-neun mariya): frequently asked questions
Q. What does 라떼는 말이야 mean?
A pun on 나 때는 말이야, “back in my day,” using the similar-sounding coffee name to mock people who lecture others with their past.
Q. Where does 라떼는 말이야 come from?
It's described as a millennial coinage, but who said it first is unconfirmed. A Samsung Life ad made it famous in April 2019.
Q. What's 라떼는 말이야 in English?
“Latte is horse” is a word-for-word joke (말 also means horse). Actual English speakers say “Back in my day.”
Q. Where can I see 라떼는 말이야 memes?
Images pairing a horse-themed coffee cup with the phrase circulate widely. We don't reproduce them for copyright reasons.
Q. What's the difference between 꼰대 and 라떼는 말이야?
꼰대 (kkondae) names the person; 라떼는 말이야 mocks the way that person talks.
So: 라떼는 말이야 is a cup of coffee attached to the way a kkondae talks. That department head still starts meetings the same way. How many lattes the juniors are up to, no one has said. If you have a sharper definition, add it to the 라떼는 말이야 entry in the dictionary.
Sources
- Banronbodo — '라떼는 말이야('Latte is a horse)'... '꼰대' 풍자 열풍 (Dec 26, 2019, in Korean)
- Seoul Shinmun — "라떼는 말이야" 꼰대들의 20대 (Ko Hye-ji, Jul 18, 2019, in Korean)
- NewDaily — 삼성생명, '책임지는 인생금융' 신규 광고 공개 (Apr 4, 2019, in Korean)
- SBS Korean — 컬처 IN: '라떼는 말이야~'... 글로벌 언어 된 '꼰대 Kkondae' (Jan 8, 2023, in Korean)
- Etoday — 직장인 10명 중 9명 "우리 회사에 '꼰대' 있다" (May 2, 2019, in Korean)
- Financial News — "그래, 나 꼰대 맞아"..직장인 10명 중 3명 스스로를 꼰대 '인정' (Jul 21, 2023, in Korean)
- Newsworks — 영탁, 박해진·김응수 주연 '꼰대인턴' OST Part 1 '꼰대라떼' (in Korean)
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